My First Ever Surprise Birthday Party- a long awaited dream coming true!

          Well it all started in a melodramatic manner with these "meet me urgently" kind of lines. Soon after the call i rushed towards the place where they had a web waiting for an insect like me! Later she showed me some candles and I paid no attention being a doofus for the moment and TADAAAAAAAA there it was “THE BADMAASH COMPANY” completely loaded with the weirdest ideas of scaring the hell out of me! Time has been equally kind and cruel to me just as it is with all of us(courtesy : kiran v chikaparappa). This moment that these exceptional persons in my life gifted to me will be cherished by me for a lifetime. In this world where people turn against each other for their greed, I’m fortunate to have a bunch of people who I know came together to bring a smile on my face. I always ask my brain if I am lucky and my brain reverts to me with all those that I couldn't have in my life! But surprisingly , my heart tells me the exact opposite making me realize what a life am I gifted with and so is everyone of you who is reading this. Three years in davangere hasn’t been easy for me but hasn’t been tough too because of these friends of mine. I've always dreamed of this and am glad this happened with you guys as the means to it. Thank you for channelizing this pulchritudinous(word for the day: synonym of beautiful) moment into my life .I know that its hardly been a year that I've met all of you, but guys my Endeavour of life has been the one that I can cosset in my life because of you all! I bet none of you knows how incredibly special you are to me! You've gifted me the title of this write up!  Well am glad to have you guys as my friends! Love you all!                                                                                  

THE UNKNOWNS!

I really don’t know how but exploring people at random is something I’ve loved doing the most! Getting to know people because of various circumstances that bring us closer or draw us apart from them.

It may be through anything may be their paintings,  write –ups ,may be their voice. There is a magical gist in this group of people whom I call as “unknowns” that had the power to draw my attention towards them in a way that surely perplexes me . I really wonder how the voice behind a song ,few beats by a musician , few colors in a painting, few braniac tricks, few steps of a dancer, few jokes by a joker and the list goes on…………! I feel there’s no end to it, makes an impact on my mind with such adrenaline intensity!

I hardly know them in sense 100% unknowns seem to make a special place for themselves in  my life.I seem to be occupied with astonishment by the way things have been going so far for me! How someone we aren’t sure of receiving a response from surprises us completely even with a simple sentence! How just a song sung by someone drowns us deep into their voice! How few bold strokes seem to reflect what the person behind these strokes is! how words like colorful free birds fly under the sky of my heart!

I’ve always believed that anything done by a person reflects their mind! I even don’t know what this is! I just am glad to experience this phenomena where these highly gifted minds I call ”the unknowns”  have such a flabbergasting effect on my mind! Some become immensely close while some seem to be major introverts and some on the contrary being major extroverts! Every kind of nature has its own merits and demerits! But studying these unique species called unknowns is something that I’ve been very fascinated about it ! God almighty must be saying “hey fatty, mahn you’re really having a ball with my gifts huh?” really am falling out of words to describe this feeling that’s in my heart!

Dedicated to all those who have impressed me by their work even before I knew their name and details! Its just that anything you do leaves a horcrux(a word understood only by harry potter fans)(for non hp fans “a mark”) of you in your work so better watch what you’re doing! I feel pretty happy to have come across all of you and if destiny wants we shall surely meet one day or the other!

THE MOST FLAWLESS AND MYSTERIOUS CREATION OF GOD!

Well hello people am back with another post.  What i am talking about are undoubtedly WOMEN! Yes ,if you've got it right hi5 on that and if you didn't ,then you guys certainly need some help. A women plays many roles but let me start with the day she's born!  Soon after her birth when she opens her teeny - weeny eyes she becomes the "love at first sight to her parents"! So everyone who doesn't believe in love at first sight ,wait for this moment and i bet it'll be the best moment of your life! Her tiny steps into the home fills it up with incredible happiness! She becomes the only girl her father ever loved after her mom! She becomes the shadow of her mother and the princess to her brother! Even a sweet smile of this moonpie makes her family to forget all the sorrows in the world! After she grows up into a gorgeous queen waiting for her king with infinite dreams in her sensitive little heart , she becomes her mom's best friend!She turns into a care taker of her father!

Coming to marriage,she leaves all that she loved the most and trusts someone to keep her happy throughout her lifetime . Which i think is the height of optimism!"BOWS" for that! Then comes "The Big Challenge" when she accepts strangers as though her family! She takes care of each and every member in the family and becomes "The Most Wanted" person of her family! She has impeccable mind that she considers someone as her mother and father and serves them for her lifetime! She is so dedicated to the family of her husband that she even fails to find time for herself. She bears the pain of having a baby which is the most poignant sign of the amount of patience she has.

She becomes a mother and look at the beauty of this gift, the infant can only feed on her milk ! She donates her life in bringing her children up. She is an ocean of patience. She can turn the barren life of a person into a fertile one!She supports everyone involved in her life! She would die to see her children successful! She can withstand anything in this world and protect her loved ones against all the odds with her love and care.May be there are even other forms of women i may never be able to describe.

Every person who loves and cares for you deserves to be appreciated. Never neglect even the slightest of love and care that you receive from anyone because there are loads of people who don't even know what's it to be loved! So,everyone who has received love and care from anyone ,respect it. With respect to this, i always feel God is present in humans and reaches out to us in various forms . A women excels in most of these forms. So, i just wanna say respect every women in your life because you never know how much they love you! I can't even believe that parents still prefer a male child and female infanticide still exists. "SACRIFICE" is the other face if women is assumed to be a coin. A face of her she'll never allow you to see . This is the greatness of women! I consider myself very lucky to have seen women in the form of mother , sister ,friend and am desperately waiting to see her in the form of life partner!

Its impossible to describe a women in terms of words or in any other form, but its just a try and i'd love even if i failed in it ! PLEASE LOVE, RESPECT AND CARE FOR WOMEN BECAUSE SHE UNDOUBTEDLY IS "THE MOST FLAWLESS AND MYSTERIOUS CREATION OF GOD"!Please share this if it touches your heart!

Most of the boys think its not possible to find a women but as i always say those who experience ,believe and those who don't, wait for their turn!All of you might have heard it too but its my attempt towards respecting women!

"change"- the most dilemmatic word!

I've always been curious to determine what this wicked word "change" means, but haven't been able to figure it out yet ! The most appropriate answer i could think of from all of you is " change is change"! You all might surely be wondering what's with me because i said i've not been able to estimate its meaning!Well in both cases we both are right! Let me see if i can convey to you what is my problem in understanding this word change! Here's a word trap for you"change is constant". The phrase i just  mentioned is not something i've written but something that dazzled me as soon as i came across it!

I am pretty sure that you're now feeling the heat of this word. We change as time changes , as people around us change, as circumstances change ,as thinking changes, as language changes from person to person and from place to place! Ask yourself is it the change that we want! Doesn't this change need to be subjected to some curtailment???You might have often heard that  change is good ,like a writers words changing the thinking of his audience. Music changing the mood of a person.The freedom fighters changed India from a disorganized state to getting it together as a single family!  This world is a toy of people who have the power to change!

On the other hand you can see that somethings in life never change! your parents love for you! Stupid idiotic buddies teasing you. the happiness when you stumble upon your good old friend! The greatest example is nature. The sun rises from the east and sets in the west! water flows from a region of greater altitude to a region of lower altitude..

I personally feel that somethings are meant to change and at the same time somethings are meant to be constant! Analogous to riding a bike, the speed changes but the balance of the bike needs to be constant!roles of some people in our life should always be constant! There is something in each one of us that if changed results in the loss of our genuinity ! At the same time if somethings in us don't change as in when we commit a mistake we need to correct it and for that we need to change ourselves!

life is all about having the right balance of change and constancy! If you don't change you can never improve and if you only keep on changing you will surely loose yourself! Treasure those people who neither change you nor their role in your life! Life for me would be the determination of factors i need to change and the factors that i need to keep constant! So people improve by "conserving yourself"! I dedicate this blog to all of them whose role in my life has never changed, because i know it takes lots of guts to stand this dangerous game called life!

My Non-Blood Related Sister!

well  living away from my family is one big deal for  a boy like me! And the worst part of it was that i could find no one who had the never ending patience to listen to my talks which by the way if imagined to be a music player had only two buttons play and rewind, where a person had to choose one of them. No exceptions!  And the striking feature of this music player is that it can run even without power  symbolizing there’s no end to it! In such a situation where I needed someone who may not be as good as my family but at least a substitute! And here it was my wish was granted by God almighty and  a cute little angelic boon  stepped into my life which  was in severe chaos! 

The first time I met her I had no idea that we both would go so far! This incident is certainly the one which I feel everyone  stumbles upon! She certainly is dead opposite to me! She’s not matured but still this wizard solves my most complex problems with her magical wand of love and care! She’s the first one to know what happens to me! She certainly turned my life around from a desert to an evergreen forest! She is the one who knows me better  than myself. A very compassionate soul, a facultative thinker! The most melodious raaga on which the music of my life is based! The only unaffordable gift of my life! And the person whom I envy the most with regards to her is her brother. What a wonderful sister does he have in his life! I sometimes think that she was supposed to be my sister  instead! She’s few of those who can predict my thinking! She showed me what I am! She often tells me that I am very patient but, knowing myself has made me realize that she is absolutely the most patient girl I’ve ever come across because of one thing , she always listens to whatever “ amith -the blabbermouth” has to say at anytime without giving it a second thought. She has exquisitely handled me and the situations in my life in a way that anyone would be amazed to see! She’s given me the love that I could have got if I were to stay with my family!  She is the only reason why I have a sustained life in my “karmabhoomi-davangere”.

 I feel proud to say this that even if I had a small sis, she would never be able to play the role of this “compiler” of the program of my life! I know I can never be able to explain what you’re to me, but this is just an attempt towards it which I am sure is no way close to what you are to me! Love you sweet sister and you dare never  ever I repeat ever leave me because I don’t know “ miss practical” if you realize that you’ve become such an indivisible part of my family! I mean it! Be there for me because its you who completes  me and my family! You’re the only compiler  who can debug the logical errors of the program of my life! love you sweetheart sister! Although “the  Indian  society” doesn’t believe in such a concept of “the non- blood related sister” the only sentence that comes to my mind is “those who believe experience and those who don’t ,wait for their experience and then believe”!

my ray of hope- my best friend!

You know its said that everyone has a friend from childhood who turns out  to be the friend for a lifetime!!!! I kinda doubt it . You can say that i got him at an age where everyone was pretty organized in terms of their friends and i was the only one left alone!!!! I believed that its gotta be beyond my expectations because of which i was kept waiting for such a longtime!!! Finally there was a new admission in my class of fifth standard and there he was sitting like an innocent little rabbit very calm,subtle and  pretty much the reserve type boy!!! There was something about him that caught my attention from the day i saw him!!!!!It was friendship at first sight!!! He turned out to be the favorite of the class monitors. 

He surely seemed one of the limited editions of the God almighty!!!!What can i say about him,he was slow to get along with me but every step was deep routed in our hearts!!!We loved quiz n cricket!!!!He was pretty passionate about sports and i only loved cricket(the only game i could play easily because i was almost double his size)!!!He started conquering my heart and the world just became a better place to live in!!After penetrating my heart and soul he never looked back. He became the first one to know what i feel. The newest member of my family!!!! The best thing i like about this great boon to me from God is that he always stuck to his words. He never promised me anything that he cannot do. He was a part of my family discussion on my career and not just that was my only support to the choice that i had made for my career( B E in biotechnology)!!! Even now the akki huggi made by his mom is my favorite dish which still makes my mom jealous!!! He is such  a person seeing whom anyone would be jealous with. He is my ray of hope. He is the one who my family wants me to get replaced for and same is the scenario at his home!!!!! You've been the silent support of my life!!! The one who had the patience to listen to my never ending brainiac talks!!! This ones for you-" i love you paape"(bowled you ain't i?)..... my feelings for you are beyond words and beyond expressions!!!!Having you is a feeling i never wanna come out of!!! Even now when we are separated by geographical barrier you're still intact in my heart!!!! Love you my only "ray of hope"!!!!!