A LESSON FINALLY LEARNT!

Sometimes very small incidents change our life by a huge extent. Well it was just yesterday and i was still in my “haven’t got a single call from a company” mode. It was evening and i had been to the nearby lake just to feel better. Luckily i had a camera and was taking some snaps of birds there. I had finished it and suddenly i heard someone saying hi. I turned around to find out that it was my lecturer who taught me CAD in the first year of my engineering. He casually asked me how are you doing? I told him that many of my friends are placed in multiple companies and i haven’t attended a single interview yet! He said you’re spending great quality time . I saw you taking snaps and how involved you were in it! You know something its not easy . Youth today loose their hopes over pretty small things even when they have so many opportunities. I’m glad you were enjoying your time.

Placement , something that makes a student believe himself and also standardizes his ability. As depressed i was of not having heard from a single company i stopped living life. Life just went on the way  it could probably go. I started becoming isolated and far from everyone. No new clothes , no buying anything new. Finally i started doubting myself and my  abilities. The hurricane of not being placed hit me and hit me real hard! I was shredded into pieces. I  even stopped talking . All my friends wondered what’s with me because i was always a blabbermouth. Well life seemed to have driven me into oblivion.

Coming back to the evening at the lake, i wondered what he told me about and it lead to the inception of a  series of thoughts in my mind!  I know placement or even attending recruitment programmes builds a lot of confidence in you. But it doesn’t mean that you cannot succeed if you you’re not placed! I’m not saying that we all can be Narayan Murthy , but becoming ourselves is the greatest thing that could happen for us . The greatest person we can ever become is ourselves. That’s when i felt that without drawing and writing my life would’ve been so pale. There’s so much to life than just success or failure. All we have to remember is to keep trying. Life is to enjoy! Doing what you love the most. So whenever you face failure, draw someone’s portrait! Help someone find their moment of success! Write something that comes to your mind! Feel the chilled breeze in the evenings breath it in and feel the love in it sent by someone somewhere in this world. When it rains get wet in rain, get your clothes dirty! Hangout with your loved ones! You’ve got just one life ! Live it like never before. Don’t spoil it because of someone or something. Life is a gift to be enjoyed not to be sad upon. Nothing heals wounds the way  time does. Just keep yourself interested in something and you’ll transcend through any phase of your life! Celebrate success and failure equally!

We all come across such people in our lives who although, are not close to us impact our lives to a great extent! Help us realize what we are. All we have to do keep our eyes wide open to everything that we come across in our lives and we’ll surely have our share of sparkling moments of our lives! Cheers to life! Cheers to the greatest gift of God!

Unleash The Fire In You!

Coming to almost the end of my engineering course has always made me realize so much about not just engineering but also life! We all start with dreams of becoming someone we’ve been seeing as our idol! But ,I always felt life has been very unique to me and am sure it is to each one of you! We’ve come to a stage where we are seeing the other side of life, which I’m sure is cruel to us than the most of our nightmares! It just keeps getting harder and harder. Everytime  you tell yourself that this is it , its all over and then something happens that takes you away from what you had really aimed for! We all fight for that spirit inside us that’s of Divine origin and serene in nature!

The next  time when we try  we make sure we’re completely on track for the thing that we wanted the most which involves the common good of everyone and make this earth a better and less bitter place to live in! we strive hard enough  and still our efforts don’t seem enough. Eventually i ended up in the darkest forest i've come across in journey of my life, where I was quite alone! A place where the only help for me was this spark of the divine soul that kept itself alive through the hurricanes that just kept breaking me apart and deteriorating every bit of me! But its on us to make sure that this incredible power is used for its destined purpose  !Believe me or not we all have or will reach a stage where however strong we are we will be torn apart by varieties of circumstances. This is when I want you to look deep inside yourself and dig out the spark that I’m talking about! This spark is the only thing that can get you out of the most petrifying situations of your life! If you are able to nurture this spark and enhance it turning it into a giant fire then it not only  will shield you from the obstacles that come in your way but also burn them down into ashes in seconds. It’s a phase where in even your heart pumps blood to its maximum capacity. Every nerve fights for you and every drop of blood running through your body is trying its very very best to complement your thoughts .But , if you’re concentration moves away from this spark then you’re at your most vulnerable state! Its my deep concern that made me write this post because most of them whom I’ve seen fail gave up! Most of the times it was lack of interest and also the fear of failing! Let me put forth my own principle that I think can help you” the more you fail the greater is your probability of succeeding and the more you succeed the greater is your probability of failing”. So its a warning note to those of my dear ones who are succeeding and I heartily wish them all a great future ahead! For those who haven’t had their breakthrough its time to subvert the paradigm and make sure you’re answerable to God at the end of your life!

The most worrying factors I’ve noticed are laziness and fear of failing! We all are miracles in ourselves ! Do you think  it was easy for for those innumerable characters that we inherit from our parents to fit into one individual? Do you think it was easy for 200000000 sperms to compete among themselves and only one could succeed out of them? The way I understand it we are small miracles in ourselves who are destined to achieve miracles that have never been achieved before! Fear of failing – this is one thing that really bugs me! People who think that what if I fail after working hard and facing failure are at the height of their stupidities! Don’t you see it failure is the only way you can improve! We all want to be better and better with every passing day and we don’t want to face failure which I think is really insane! The next time you face failure proudly tell it” come on I’ve been waiting for you to improve me”. If all of us can display this commitment to excellence then believe me you can make a difference in your lives and also others on a daily basis! Finally if what I’ve said really affected anyone of you then I’ll be glad that I could be of any help! Don’t wait for help or guidance , be your own guiding light and always try and guide others on their ways because it is very difficult to find a guide and those who have the right one are incredibly lucky! If you don’t have a guide then may be its your turn to be the guide! ALWAYS REMEMBER EACH ONE OF YOU IS DESTINED TO GREATNESS IN YOUR OWN WAY! If you've felt something, right there in your heart then please suggest your friends to read this and share it on your walls. Not for me, but for those lives where these words may make a large difference. Even I’m trying to do the same and I wish you all the very best in your lives! 

My Non-Blood Related Sister!

well  living away from my family is one big deal for  a boy like me! And the worst part of it was that i could find no one who had the never ending patience to listen to my talks which by the way if imagined to be a music player had only two buttons play and rewind, where a person had to choose one of them. No exceptions!  And the striking feature of this music player is that it can run even without power  symbolizing there’s no end to it! In such a situation where I needed someone who may not be as good as my family but at least a substitute! And here it was my wish was granted by God almighty and  a cute little angelic boon  stepped into my life which  was in severe chaos! 

The first time I met her I had no idea that we both would go so far! This incident is certainly the one which I feel everyone  stumbles upon! She certainly is dead opposite to me! She’s not matured but still this wizard solves my most complex problems with her magical wand of love and care! She’s the first one to know what happens to me! She certainly turned my life around from a desert to an evergreen forest! She is the one who knows me better  than myself. A very compassionate soul, a facultative thinker! The most melodious raaga on which the music of my life is based! The only unaffordable gift of my life! And the person whom I envy the most with regards to her is her brother. What a wonderful sister does he have in his life! I sometimes think that she was supposed to be my sister  instead! She’s few of those who can predict my thinking! She showed me what I am! She often tells me that I am very patient but, knowing myself has made me realize that she is absolutely the most patient girl I’ve ever come across because of one thing , she always listens to whatever “ amith -the blabbermouth” has to say at anytime without giving it a second thought. She has exquisitely handled me and the situations in my life in a way that anyone would be amazed to see! She’s given me the love that I could have got if I were to stay with my family!  She is the only reason why I have a sustained life in my “karmabhoomi-davangere”.

 I feel proud to say this that even if I had a small sis, she would never be able to play the role of this “compiler” of the program of my life! I know I can never be able to explain what you’re to me, but this is just an attempt towards it which I am sure is no way close to what you are to me! Love you sweet sister and you dare never  ever I repeat ever leave me because I don’t know “ miss practical” if you realize that you’ve become such an indivisible part of my family! I mean it! Be there for me because its you who completes  me and my family! You’re the only compiler  who can debug the logical errors of the program of my life! love you sweetheart sister! Although “the  Indian  society” doesn’t believe in such a concept of “the non- blood related sister” the only sentence that comes to my mind is “those who believe experience and those who don’t ,wait for their experience and then believe”!