Unleash The Fire In You!

Coming to almost the end of my engineering course has always made me realize so much about not just engineering but also life! We all start with dreams of becoming someone we’ve been seeing as our idol! But ,I always felt life has been very unique to me and am sure it is to each one of you! We’ve come to a stage where we are seeing the other side of life, which I’m sure is cruel to us than the most of our nightmares! It just keeps getting harder and harder. Everytime  you tell yourself that this is it , its all over and then something happens that takes you away from what you had really aimed for! We all fight for that spirit inside us that’s of Divine origin and serene in nature!

The next  time when we try  we make sure we’re completely on track for the thing that we wanted the most which involves the common good of everyone and make this earth a better and less bitter place to live in! we strive hard enough  and still our efforts don’t seem enough. Eventually i ended up in the darkest forest i've come across in journey of my life, where I was quite alone! A place where the only help for me was this spark of the divine soul that kept itself alive through the hurricanes that just kept breaking me apart and deteriorating every bit of me! But its on us to make sure that this incredible power is used for its destined purpose  !Believe me or not we all have or will reach a stage where however strong we are we will be torn apart by varieties of circumstances. This is when I want you to look deep inside yourself and dig out the spark that I’m talking about! This spark is the only thing that can get you out of the most petrifying situations of your life! If you are able to nurture this spark and enhance it turning it into a giant fire then it not only  will shield you from the obstacles that come in your way but also burn them down into ashes in seconds. It’s a phase where in even your heart pumps blood to its maximum capacity. Every nerve fights for you and every drop of blood running through your body is trying its very very best to complement your thoughts .But , if you’re concentration moves away from this spark then you’re at your most vulnerable state! Its my deep concern that made me write this post because most of them whom I’ve seen fail gave up! Most of the times it was lack of interest and also the fear of failing! Let me put forth my own principle that I think can help you” the more you fail the greater is your probability of succeeding and the more you succeed the greater is your probability of failing”. So its a warning note to those of my dear ones who are succeeding and I heartily wish them all a great future ahead! For those who haven’t had their breakthrough its time to subvert the paradigm and make sure you’re answerable to God at the end of your life!

The most worrying factors I’ve noticed are laziness and fear of failing! We all are miracles in ourselves ! Do you think  it was easy for for those innumerable characters that we inherit from our parents to fit into one individual? Do you think it was easy for 200000000 sperms to compete among themselves and only one could succeed out of them? The way I understand it we are small miracles in ourselves who are destined to achieve miracles that have never been achieved before! Fear of failing – this is one thing that really bugs me! People who think that what if I fail after working hard and facing failure are at the height of their stupidities! Don’t you see it failure is the only way you can improve! We all want to be better and better with every passing day and we don’t want to face failure which I think is really insane! The next time you face failure proudly tell it” come on I’ve been waiting for you to improve me”. If all of us can display this commitment to excellence then believe me you can make a difference in your lives and also others on a daily basis! Finally if what I’ve said really affected anyone of you then I’ll be glad that I could be of any help! Don’t wait for help or guidance , be your own guiding light and always try and guide others on their ways because it is very difficult to find a guide and those who have the right one are incredibly lucky! If you don’t have a guide then may be its your turn to be the guide! ALWAYS REMEMBER EACH ONE OF YOU IS DESTINED TO GREATNESS IN YOUR OWN WAY! If you've felt something, right there in your heart then please suggest your friends to read this and share it on your walls. Not for me, but for those lives where these words may make a large difference. Even I’m trying to do the same and I wish you all the very best in your lives! 

My First Ever Surprise Birthday Party- a long awaited dream coming true!

          Well it all started in a melodramatic manner with these "meet me urgently" kind of lines. Soon after the call i rushed towards the place where they had a web waiting for an insect like me! Later she showed me some candles and I paid no attention being a doofus for the moment and TADAAAAAAAA there it was “THE BADMAASH COMPANY” completely loaded with the weirdest ideas of scaring the hell out of me! Time has been equally kind and cruel to me just as it is with all of us(courtesy : kiran v chikaparappa). This moment that these exceptional persons in my life gifted to me will be cherished by me for a lifetime. In this world where people turn against each other for their greed, I’m fortunate to have a bunch of people who I know came together to bring a smile on my face. I always ask my brain if I am lucky and my brain reverts to me with all those that I couldn't have in my life! But surprisingly , my heart tells me the exact opposite making me realize what a life am I gifted with and so is everyone of you who is reading this. Three years in davangere hasn’t been easy for me but hasn’t been tough too because of these friends of mine. I've always dreamed of this and am glad this happened with you guys as the means to it. Thank you for channelizing this pulchritudinous(word for the day: synonym of beautiful) moment into my life .I know that its hardly been a year that I've met all of you, but guys my Endeavour of life has been the one that I can cosset in my life because of you all! I bet none of you knows how incredibly special you are to me! You've gifted me the title of this write up!  Well am glad to have you guys as my friends! Love you all!                                                                                  

THE UNKNOWNS!

I really don’t know how but exploring people at random is something I’ve loved doing the most! Getting to know people because of various circumstances that bring us closer or draw us apart from them.

It may be through anything may be their paintings,  write –ups ,may be their voice. There is a magical gist in this group of people whom I call as “unknowns” that had the power to draw my attention towards them in a way that surely perplexes me . I really wonder how the voice behind a song ,few beats by a musician , few colors in a painting, few braniac tricks, few steps of a dancer, few jokes by a joker and the list goes on…………! I feel there’s no end to it, makes an impact on my mind with such adrenaline intensity!

I hardly know them in sense 100% unknowns seem to make a special place for themselves in  my life.I seem to be occupied with astonishment by the way things have been going so far for me! How someone we aren’t sure of receiving a response from surprises us completely even with a simple sentence! How just a song sung by someone drowns us deep into their voice! How few bold strokes seem to reflect what the person behind these strokes is! how words like colorful free birds fly under the sky of my heart!

I’ve always believed that anything done by a person reflects their mind! I even don’t know what this is! I just am glad to experience this phenomena where these highly gifted minds I call ”the unknowns”  have such a flabbergasting effect on my mind! Some become immensely close while some seem to be major introverts and some on the contrary being major extroverts! Every kind of nature has its own merits and demerits! But studying these unique species called unknowns is something that I’ve been very fascinated about it ! God almighty must be saying “hey fatty, mahn you’re really having a ball with my gifts huh?” really am falling out of words to describe this feeling that’s in my heart!

Dedicated to all those who have impressed me by their work even before I knew their name and details! Its just that anything you do leaves a horcrux(a word understood only by harry potter fans)(for non hp fans “a mark”) of you in your work so better watch what you’re doing! I feel pretty happy to have come across all of you and if destiny wants we shall surely meet one day or the other!

THE MOST FLAWLESS AND MYSTERIOUS CREATION OF GOD!

Well hello people am back with another post.  What i am talking about are undoubtedly WOMEN! Yes ,if you've got it right hi5 on that and if you didn't ,then you guys certainly need some help. A women plays many roles but let me start with the day she's born!  Soon after her birth when she opens her teeny - weeny eyes she becomes the "love at first sight to her parents"! So everyone who doesn't believe in love at first sight ,wait for this moment and i bet it'll be the best moment of your life! Her tiny steps into the home fills it up with incredible happiness! She becomes the only girl her father ever loved after her mom! She becomes the shadow of her mother and the princess to her brother! Even a sweet smile of this moonpie makes her family to forget all the sorrows in the world! After she grows up into a gorgeous queen waiting for her king with infinite dreams in her sensitive little heart , she becomes her mom's best friend!She turns into a care taker of her father!

Coming to marriage,she leaves all that she loved the most and trusts someone to keep her happy throughout her lifetime . Which i think is the height of optimism!"BOWS" for that! Then comes "The Big Challenge" when she accepts strangers as though her family! She takes care of each and every member in the family and becomes "The Most Wanted" person of her family! She has impeccable mind that she considers someone as her mother and father and serves them for her lifetime! She is so dedicated to the family of her husband that she even fails to find time for herself. She bears the pain of having a baby which is the most poignant sign of the amount of patience she has.

She becomes a mother and look at the beauty of this gift, the infant can only feed on her milk ! She donates her life in bringing her children up. She is an ocean of patience. She can turn the barren life of a person into a fertile one!She supports everyone involved in her life! She would die to see her children successful! She can withstand anything in this world and protect her loved ones against all the odds with her love and care.May be there are even other forms of women i may never be able to describe.

Every person who loves and cares for you deserves to be appreciated. Never neglect even the slightest of love and care that you receive from anyone because there are loads of people who don't even know what's it to be loved! So,everyone who has received love and care from anyone ,respect it. With respect to this, i always feel God is present in humans and reaches out to us in various forms . A women excels in most of these forms. So, i just wanna say respect every women in your life because you never know how much they love you! I can't even believe that parents still prefer a male child and female infanticide still exists. "SACRIFICE" is the other face if women is assumed to be a coin. A face of her she'll never allow you to see . This is the greatness of women! I consider myself very lucky to have seen women in the form of mother , sister ,friend and am desperately waiting to see her in the form of life partner!

Its impossible to describe a women in terms of words or in any other form, but its just a try and i'd love even if i failed in it ! PLEASE LOVE, RESPECT AND CARE FOR WOMEN BECAUSE SHE UNDOUBTEDLY IS "THE MOST FLAWLESS AND MYSTERIOUS CREATION OF GOD"!Please share this if it touches your heart!

Most of the boys think its not possible to find a women but as i always say those who experience ,believe and those who don't, wait for their turn!All of you might have heard it too but its my attempt towards respecting women!