"change"- the most dilemmatic word!

I've always been curious to determine what this wicked word "change" means, but haven't been able to figure it out yet ! The most appropriate answer i could think of from all of you is " change is change"! You all might surely be wondering what's with me because i said i've not been able to estimate its meaning!Well in both cases we both are right! Let me see if i can convey to you what is my problem in understanding this word change! Here's a word trap for you"change is constant". The phrase i just  mentioned is not something i've written but something that dazzled me as soon as i came across it!

I am pretty sure that you're now feeling the heat of this word. We change as time changes , as people around us change, as circumstances change ,as thinking changes, as language changes from person to person and from place to place! Ask yourself is it the change that we want! Doesn't this change need to be subjected to some curtailment???You might have often heard that  change is good ,like a writers words changing the thinking of his audience. Music changing the mood of a person.The freedom fighters changed India from a disorganized state to getting it together as a single family!  This world is a toy of people who have the power to change!

On the other hand you can see that somethings in life never change! your parents love for you! Stupid idiotic buddies teasing you. the happiness when you stumble upon your good old friend! The greatest example is nature. The sun rises from the east and sets in the west! water flows from a region of greater altitude to a region of lower altitude..

I personally feel that somethings are meant to change and at the same time somethings are meant to be constant! Analogous to riding a bike, the speed changes but the balance of the bike needs to be constant!roles of some people in our life should always be constant! There is something in each one of us that if changed results in the loss of our genuinity ! At the same time if somethings in us don't change as in when we commit a mistake we need to correct it and for that we need to change ourselves!

life is all about having the right balance of change and constancy! If you don't change you can never improve and if you only keep on changing you will surely loose yourself! Treasure those people who neither change you nor their role in your life! Life for me would be the determination of factors i need to change and the factors that i need to keep constant! So people improve by "conserving yourself"! I dedicate this blog to all of them whose role in my life has never changed, because i know it takes lots of guts to stand this dangerous game called life!

My Non-Blood Related Sister!

well  living away from my family is one big deal for  a boy like me! And the worst part of it was that i could find no one who had the never ending patience to listen to my talks which by the way if imagined to be a music player had only two buttons play and rewind, where a person had to choose one of them. No exceptions!  And the striking feature of this music player is that it can run even without power  symbolizing there’s no end to it! In such a situation where I needed someone who may not be as good as my family but at least a substitute! And here it was my wish was granted by God almighty and  a cute little angelic boon  stepped into my life which  was in severe chaos! 

The first time I met her I had no idea that we both would go so far! This incident is certainly the one which I feel everyone  stumbles upon! She certainly is dead opposite to me! She’s not matured but still this wizard solves my most complex problems with her magical wand of love and care! She’s the first one to know what happens to me! She certainly turned my life around from a desert to an evergreen forest! She is the one who knows me better  than myself. A very compassionate soul, a facultative thinker! The most melodious raaga on which the music of my life is based! The only unaffordable gift of my life! And the person whom I envy the most with regards to her is her brother. What a wonderful sister does he have in his life! I sometimes think that she was supposed to be my sister  instead! She’s few of those who can predict my thinking! She showed me what I am! She often tells me that I am very patient but, knowing myself has made me realize that she is absolutely the most patient girl I’ve ever come across because of one thing , she always listens to whatever “ amith -the blabbermouth” has to say at anytime without giving it a second thought. She has exquisitely handled me and the situations in my life in a way that anyone would be amazed to see! She’s given me the love that I could have got if I were to stay with my family!  She is the only reason why I have a sustained life in my “karmabhoomi-davangere”.

 I feel proud to say this that even if I had a small sis, she would never be able to play the role of this “compiler” of the program of my life! I know I can never be able to explain what you’re to me, but this is just an attempt towards it which I am sure is no way close to what you are to me! Love you sweet sister and you dare never  ever I repeat ever leave me because I don’t know “ miss practical” if you realize that you’ve become such an indivisible part of my family! I mean it! Be there for me because its you who completes  me and my family! You’re the only compiler  who can debug the logical errors of the program of my life! love you sweetheart sister! Although “the  Indian  society” doesn’t believe in such a concept of “the non- blood related sister” the only sentence that comes to my mind is “those who believe experience and those who don’t ,wait for their experience and then believe”!

my ray of hope- my best friend!

You know its said that everyone has a friend from childhood who turns out  to be the friend for a lifetime!!!! I kinda doubt it . You can say that i got him at an age where everyone was pretty organized in terms of their friends and i was the only one left alone!!!! I believed that its gotta be beyond my expectations because of which i was kept waiting for such a longtime!!! Finally there was a new admission in my class of fifth standard and there he was sitting like an innocent little rabbit very calm,subtle and  pretty much the reserve type boy!!! There was something about him that caught my attention from the day i saw him!!!!!It was friendship at first sight!!! He turned out to be the favorite of the class monitors. 

He surely seemed one of the limited editions of the God almighty!!!!What can i say about him,he was slow to get along with me but every step was deep routed in our hearts!!!We loved quiz n cricket!!!!He was pretty passionate about sports and i only loved cricket(the only game i could play easily because i was almost double his size)!!!He started conquering my heart and the world just became a better place to live in!!After penetrating my heart and soul he never looked back. He became the first one to know what i feel. The newest member of my family!!!! The best thing i like about this great boon to me from God is that he always stuck to his words. He never promised me anything that he cannot do. He was a part of my family discussion on my career and not just that was my only support to the choice that i had made for my career( B E in biotechnology)!!! Even now the akki huggi made by his mom is my favorite dish which still makes my mom jealous!!! He is such  a person seeing whom anyone would be jealous with. He is my ray of hope. He is the one who my family wants me to get replaced for and same is the scenario at his home!!!!! You've been the silent support of my life!!! The one who had the patience to listen to my never ending brainiac talks!!! This ones for you-" i love you paape"(bowled you ain't i?)..... my feelings for you are beyond words and beyond expressions!!!!Having you is a feeling i never wanna come out of!!! Even now when we are separated by geographical barrier you're still intact in my heart!!!! Love you my only "ray of hope"!!!!!